Parents have a huge impact on the children's growth and development.
Children take their parents words, and actions as an example, whether good or bad, and this helps them to think and to take action .
Here are nine Psychological issues, that
arise because of the incorrect parenting :
1.Anxiety And Depression :Parents who constantly look after, and observe every move, and action of their children are likely to cause their children, to feel depressed and anxious.
Usually, constant criticizing, and protection can make children question their abilities, and strength, thus becoming afraid and dependent on their parents.
2.Inability To Rest Or Relax :If parents tell their Children to bme quite, and to sit still, may feel uncomfortable, and not able to calm down, Children prefer to be silly, and if they constantly listen, to their parents who want them to behave well, and grow up. they may feel anxious. In addition, those children may become unconfident when they grow up.
3.Unhealthy Additions:If a constantly tells their child, how problems they cause, the child will most likely conclude that everyone, would be better off without him. This can lead to self -destructive behavior, such as addictions or even extreme sports.
4.Low Self -Esteem :If parents compare their children, they being to lack Self -esteem, or self confidence. Children may develop an inferiority complex, if their parents constantly compare them to their brothers, sisters or friends. In this way, the children will lack self esteem, believing that they are not good enough.
5.Problems With Trust :Even though parents constantly advise their children not to trust to strangers, if they tell them not to trust any one it may affect them negatively. The child might also develop serious trust issues, that end up seriously affecting their relationship.
6.Lack Of Initiative, And Suppressed Talent. :All children should be allowed to daydream. When a parent tells a child that they are been unrealistic it might cause the child to give up on their dreams.
7.Depression And Guilt :Parents make a lot of sacrifice for their children. However, if parents tell their children what they had to give up, children may start to feel depressed, or even guilty.
This feeling of being unworthy, can follow a child into their adult life.
8.Suppression Of Emotions :When a parent shows a lack of sensitivity or hides their emotions, a child will often mimic their parents behavior. Constantly telling a child to stop crying or stop complaining can cause them that their feelings aren't valid.
9.Lack Of Independence :If parents behave overprotective, and over -controlling, children may grow up as irresponsible, intolerant, and independent if the parents keep their children.
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